Intensity of love must increase with time

Intensity of love must increase with time

Love is the most misunderstood word in the world. We were not taught properly. Children are not allowed to speak about love with parents, teachers and elders. They go by the assumptions what is shown in the media. Though everyone wants it, no one dares to speak up loudly. In some co-ed colleges, boys and girls are not allowed to speak. If they do so, they will be fined heavily. When you put a board “Don’t peep outside”, everyone peep out of curiosity. Since, the society is not ready speak loudly about love, everyone is curious about it and try to imitate what other society is doing. Valentine’s day is one such example. For some it is business, for some it is fun and curiosity for many. A true lover never requires the support of valentine’s day or coffee day. It just happens any day, anytime. In 365 days, about 1000+ different events are observed. Bicycle rallies, painting and photography competitions for saving river or lakes takes place all over the world without touching water or cleaning the river bank. Even in the case valentine’s day, people take a chance to propose a girl or a boy. The success rate is 5-90% depending the country, region, culture etc. According to one of the surveys, 53% of them break-up within a year. Reasons are silly in western world and in India, the same old issue caste, creed, fear of society, parents, supremacy etc. Falling in love is not a big issue; but rise in love is a challenge.

Men get attracted to any good looking girls. Many develop possessiveness and try to acquire their love. Many will fail in understanding what the other person is looking for? You must win love and “Intensity of Love must increase with time”. This is possible when you love someone without any expectation and condition. Unfortunately, love has become a bartering commodity. If you get love-you give love. This is the reason for all relationship problems. About 95% of the people are not happy, though they live together and claim that they are happy. Try to fall in that 5%. To fall in that group, you must try to love everyone around you. “There is only one kind of love in this world-Intensity and purpose may vary-Magada”. A true love brings only happiness. This valentine’s day, If you don’t have anyone to propose, you simply wish the watchman, driver, shopkeeper, janitor, attender or anyone you don’t wish regularly. From 15^th February make it a habit of wishing them regularly. See the changes in your life...The happiness index goes beyond the measuring scale...Good luck.